1.4 Something Unexpected

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Hey guys, it’s been a while but …

Surprising news I’m 6 months pregnant.  Yassss, my dreams of starting a family are finally coming true.  I didn’t intend to start one this soon nor without being married butttt, it is what it is and I’m just happy.  Also something else unexpected happened Aarav proposed; and I said yeeesssss.

 

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I’m cultivating a new friendship with a lady I met at a festival.  She’s pretty funny and she told me that she is an artist.  I told her I would stop by to see some of her art one day.

Aarav confessed to me that his parents are deceased for 3 years and that he is the last of his lineage, neither of his parents had siblings and neither did he.  He is excited about having a child also.

It must be as they say Kismet that we both share a similar background and desire for a big family.  So it seems we are off to a non-traditional but good start.  Notice I said “it seems” forever the skeptic, shish.   I’m gonna believe and hope for the best and not worry about what can go wrong.

 

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Shotgun Engagement I know, don’t laugh

 

1.3 Fun With My Boo

After that night when the bartender passed in front of me, needless to say I was very disturbed and upset that night. Aarav took me home to my humble humble abode, yall saw the pictures right, but at least it’s mine. Anyho, Aarav took me by the hand looked into my eyes and asked if I wanted him to stay. I hesitated because I mean I just met the guy. He grabbed me and kissed me tenderly on the forehead then the mouth. We sat on the bed(there’s nowhere else to sit) and started talking about death. I ended up telling him how I never knew my parents and that I am an orphan. I said my two besties Beyonce and Jordan are the only family I know. At that very moment we looked deeply into each other eyes and started making out to beat the band. Then one thing lead to another and we ended up rolling around on that bed, no details, I’m sure you know what happened next. After all the woohoo I was ready for him to stay.

 

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Beautiful – My Roses are coming along beautifully guys

 

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Some plant magic talk goin on here lol

In the morning I made us eggs and bacon. He left to go to work and I stayed home that day, couldn’t focus I kept thinking about that bartender., OMG! Guys.

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Beyonce came over she needed to talk about rethinking her career path.  She had a set back and she was thinking about changing from her music career.  She told me that she hasn’t been getting a good response to her performances.  I encouraged her to follow her dreams and to have a plan B.  I suggested she might need to practice more.

The next time I saw Aarav was over coffee and I found out he works as maintenance for the building he lives in.   He told me he’s quite handy and that his father had him learning to fix appliances around the house since he was 12.  He can fix anything in my house, definitely a good skill to have.  He can be my house husband and keep the house up to par, lol.

 

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Oh yeah and I added a kitten to my family her name is Cici

 

1.2 The Good, The Bad and the Ugly

 

So I’ll start with a few pics of my updated home.  Yall like the improvements.  I wall papered the bathroom, and added the divider between the bedroom and kitchen.

My garden is coming along, I’m very proud of how it looks and I’m looking forward to extending it even further.  I’ve been doing some research and found out it can be very profitable.

Me and Bae went out and we had our first kiss.  That was the most romantic to me, but check out the look on his face, I just went in and took what I wanted.  He looks shocked but I don’t think he really minded.  From the way he acted as the night went on I don’t feel like he was bothered by the kiss but instead was shocked.

We were having so much fun we went to a rooftop club and something bad happened.  The bartender died, he had a heart attack.  I was so distraught, I asked bae to take me home after that.  I didn’t know the guy but that was just so crazy seeing someone die in my face.

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1.1 Promotions and Dating Joy

My first day at work I had my co-worker take a picture of me while inventing the momentum conserver.  I already have my co-workers eating out of my hands.

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Outside the Lab.  Were not allowed to take pictures from inside.
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The front of my humble abode.  It still needs a lot of work.
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This is a view across the street, lovely neighborhood.   I sure was blessed to get such a great location.  I imagine my neighbors are bothered by my tiny house, but who really cares I’m doin me and I don’t have time for snobs.

This is the inside, my humble bathroom and tiny bed.  The kitchen is the best part.

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I had gotten dressed to go out for a bit and made a salad so I didn’t have to spend money on food.  Mchottie called and asked if I wanted to meet him somewhere.  Of course I said yes with glee in my heart and not my voice.

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Outside we had a nice chat and bonded easily.  We had drinks and watched a cool performer, I also met some cool people.  I’m lovin this town.  Oh and I did get a promotion.